A beautiful healthy sweet 4 month old. Maddie. Out of no where stops breathing....here one second, gone the next.Could you even imagine spending 4 short months with your baby to have her taken from you? The pain this family must be going through. To lay their sweet daughter to rest. To come home to a quiet empty house, to see all those tiny baby things laying around. I'd probably have to set my house on fire....
Many of you dont know and some of you do that I too have suffered the loss of a child. Different than this, but also the same. I'm not going into details. I don't talk about it. To anyone except my dearest friends and even then, it's hard. But I was young then handled it differently than I probably would now. Just like the death of my mother.....
This family seems to be handling it as best as you can handle this type of tragedy. I find in these times I really question what God is doing. I know I shouldn't. I know He has plan and it is best this way. But how many can honestly say, that if you lost your child tomorrow, you wouldn't ask why? I think that's what makes us human. The inability to understand. Why murders and rapists roam free while innocent children are murdered and beaten and just gone.
Well the point of this blog was not to go on about my feelings or thoughts, it was to send a message from the family, who will be burying their 4 month old princess tomorrow (Wednesday) that in honor of her, you have your daughter(s) wear big bows as Maddie so often did.
You can read about it here, and send your love, prayers and thoughts their way http://kandjstaats.blogspot.com/
The Bows I made for the girls to wear to show support for Maddie
Kadence wearing her "For Maddie" Bow and necklace
sad sad sad:( Hudson is four months & I just thank God for every day with him!
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