I have a stalker!!!

So it seems I have a stalker. Which I must admit, I am not the least bit surprised. 2 or 3 days after I found out I was pregnant, Robert sent me a text message and said he heard I was pregnant and when was I due. Of course I replied to him that it was none of his business and to leave me alone. He said as long as his daughter was living in my house, Blaine and I were his business. Which I said my body is none of his business, and if he texted me again, I was going to file harassment charges. Man Blaine was ticked. He really wants to beat the crap out of him. But that would take forever, because he’s full of it.

So I sat here wondering how he could know. My first thought was myspace. So I searched for his name, his mom’s name, his ex’s name, both his brother’s names, his sister’s name and his sister in law’s name. And I came up with nothing. So I was like, hmmmm. Then a thought occurred to me. His sister in law and I became very close 2 years ago over a mutual hatred of his mother. She is married to his brother, so that would be her mother in law. Unlucky for her, she lives close  to the woman. Lucky for me I live over 800 miles away. Anyways, we were constantly sharing gossip about her. I told her when Nell (Robert's mother) talked about her, and she told me the things that Nell was saying to his WHOLE family about me. Which, let me list what she said about me:

I don’t have custody of any of my kids. I gave one away to her father. My son’s father is in prison, and let me tell you, at the time, he lived a few apartments down from me and I saw him every week to get my child support, lol. I get pregnant for money...LOL!!!! (Let’s weigh the costs of raising a child, versus the cost of child support from the father. I think it takes more than 60 bucks a week to raise a child.) And at the time, my mother was still alive, and I supposed hated her, which you know if you ever read my blogs that I loved my mother very much, and miss her so much. She was all I had. By the way, I love kids and that’s why I have them. Anyways, she told a bunch of other crap and so the hatred began. And Keri his sister in law and I would email all the time! Then one time Robert got my emails and told his mother what she and I were doing.

 Instead of standing up for me, he took her side, and that’s when I really started hating him. So Keri and I decided we could still be friends, even though my ex and I were not together, we just couldn’t talk bad about Nell, his mother. With her living in Ohio, they have never met Kadence, so I gave her my photobucket link. When I found out I was pregnant, I put the pictures of my tests in there. So I thought that either Keri told them about me being pregnant, or she had given Nell my photobucket link. So I emailed Keri and asked her. And she just got back to me yesterday.And this is what she said....
Honestly, Nell is the one who told me you were pregnant. She said she put it together because it follows your past track record? I haven’t looked at your photobucket in a long long time! Sorry! So it wasn’t me who found out first? Do they know about your photobucket? Can she find it online? Nell is good about finding people online I do not know how to do that...she found Nikki, Mitch’s sister after they had a big falling out and she moved to Georgia! She started sending her e-mail’s and told her she found her online somehow...I am not that good with computer stuff.
So I decided a new method. I did a myspace search using their email addresses instead of names, and what do you know! There was one for Nell, but it hadn’t been used since July or August. Want to hear the sad part? There was one for her 14 year old son, yet it said he was 16, and he had no friends but Tom, had been logged onto recently, and the only picture was of Nell’s dog! So she is using her kids email and names to spy on me. What a stalker. I knew she was a crazy. Robert had told me about her stealing her own husbands pills, and having a mental breakdown and stuff. I mean I guess I could make my profile private. But why should I have to? She shouldn’t be nosing around in the first place. Then she tells her family she just "knows" I am pregnant! What a liar! She "knows" because she is spying on me. And she talks about my "track record" She has 4 kids by 3 different men, and she had her first one at 14. That’s right. She is 45 years old, and her son is 31. I confronted her once, but she said that I didn’t know what I was talking about, and I guess I don’t know her age. Her own daughter in law, the 31 year old's wife, is the one that told me about it. I think she knows her husbands age, and as for his mother, well on that myspace I found, it says she is 45 years old, so hmmm...sounds about right to me.

Yeah so that’s the crazy thing I have to deal with. Man people are so crazy! She needs help seriously, and I am so glad she’s in Ohio, and I don’t have to put up with her very much.